I was engaged in this very intriguing conversation with two of my catholic friends. First they talked about premarital sex -
Catholic A: it's just wrong man, fuck it nobody should have premarital sex.
Catholic B: I spoke to a pastor(or father, or whatever name appropriate) in this church and he was telling me that the Bible was written when people get married at the age of 13 or 14, and now we get married at 30 or 40. You gotta do something in between to release yourself you know. It's not wrong to have premarital sex as long as you love the person. Rui, what you say?
Me: Er...i don't care, sex is always good. The more sex the marrier!!!
Then they move on to argue about whether love is by choice.
Catholic A: Love is definitely by choice. You choose to love somebody because you know you love her.
Catholic B: No you're so wrong! Love is definitely not by choice. It's not determined by you. You can't decide who you love. You might not want to fall in love with somebody, but you WILL still fall in love with her. Rui, what you say?
Me(this time choosing not to be an asshole again): Hmm, man, I don't really know. If I love this girl who doesn't like me at all, does that mean love is not by choice?
That's a good question to ponder over my friends. If you're in love with somebody or has been in love or don't have any fucking idea what love is but is desperate searching for it, think about it, can we choose love?


leaving skool guoyandao at 9:52 PM [comment]

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